Friday, July 18, 2025

The End is Nigh

 


          Years ago, I did what you’re supposed to do when looking for a hairdresser: I turned to the well-turned out lady in my class at the YMCA and asked her where she got her hair done.

          My previous guy had suddenly passed on to that salon in the sky, very likely due to a cocaine habit I learned about later. (Innocent that I am, I had often wondered why his pinkie nail was so much longer than the rest)


          I ended up at a shop owned by Albert and Theresa, beginning with the wife and then switching to Albert when Theresa took a job outside of hairdressing. I went to Albert at his own shop for possibly five years, followed him to another where he rented a chair, then next I was at his self-owned shop again, a fairly big operation offering a neighboring spa for facials. He went from there to his present location, where he and his wife again both rent chairs. He’s probably been giving me the same haircut for the past 25 years while we chat about restaurants and our kids.


          The two of them not only live in my town, but only a few streets away, so they feel like neighbors. When he trimmed my hair in May, we discussed getting new countertops for our kitchens. We’re both in the midst of decision-making and both realize we’re not spring chickens and that we’re not building the pyramids, or something that needs to last through the ages.


          But then he said, “Who knows how much longer we’ll be in our house?” and then Theresa joked about the possibility of winning the lottery and heading into the sunset.

           A chill ran up my spine.

          He texted me today to remind me of my appointment on Saturday morning but there was a scary paragraph that followed:

          “As of August 1st, we will no long be accepting credit cards or debit cards. Cash or checks only. Sorry for the inconvenience.”

          I’d better start checking out the ladies at the Y again.

Wednesday, July 16, 2025

Shopping and heat

        We're having a few things done to the kitchen and in the process I remembered I've always disliked the lights that hang over our kitchen bar. 

Saturday, July 12, 2025

Editorial

 

I left my English classroom over a decade ago, but long before that I was feeling the effects of this new-fangled internet.

Tuesday, July 8, 2025

Back Woes

 

At 3 a.m., after climbing out of bed to slather CBD cream on my right side, while I waited for it to (hopefully) do something, I had time to ponder. Wouldn’t it be nice if our bodies provided some kind of early warning system before misery hits?

Monday, July 7, 2025

Growing and Viewing

 



This fella was outside the window as I wrote.   


Sunday was a bit aimless, although I did get a few things done.

  


        It began with my usual yoga class, which passes in stages - Denial (this is killing my knee, why am I here?), Acceptance (okay, at least this pose doesn’t hurt), Relief (I can do this, glad I came, happy it’s over).

Saturday, July 5, 2025

Flowery Fourth

 




The two of us spent the Fourth at our son’s in Providence, R.I.

Friday, July 4, 2025

Independence

 

          Independence is a wonderful thing in its many forms.